Refocusing Your Life on What’s Important
- Jennell Vanzant

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Life can get really loud sometimes. Between school, work, friendships, social media, and trying to figure out your future, it’s easy to feel pulled in every direction. You might find yourself constantly busy but not necessarily fulfilled—or wondering if you’re living with real purpose.
Refocusing your life means slowing down and realigning with what truly matters—what brings you peace, purpose, and connection to God. It’s not about having everything figured out. It’s about taking small, intentional steps toward living in a way that reflects your faith, your values, and who you’re becoming.
1. Pause and Check In with Yourself (and with God)
It’s hard to hear God’s voice when life feels noisy. Taking time to be still—whether through
prayer, journaling, or simply breathing deeply—creates space to listen.
Ask yourself:
• What’s been taking up most of my time and energy?
• Is it drawing me closer to God or further away?
• What’s something that makes me feel grounded, peaceful, or purposeful?
Moments of quiet reflection can help you recognize where your focus has drifted and where God might be inviting you to realign.
2. Remember What Truly Matters
Your worth isn’t defined by your grades, your followers, or your accomplishments—it comes
from who you are in God’s eyes. When you let your identity and decisions flow from that truth, everything else begins to fall into place.
Think about your values: kindness, honesty, service, faith, growth, and boldness. How can you bring more of those into your daily life? Living out your values is one of the most powerful ways to live out your faith.
3. Make Space for What Feeds Your Soul
Sometimes we fill our days so full that we leave no room for the things that nourish us spiritually and emotionally. Making space might look like setting aside time for prayer, attending church or youth group, journaling about what you’re grateful for, playing a sport or musical instrument you love, creating, or simply unplugging to rest.
Simplifying isn’t about doing less—it’s about making room for what draws you closer to God
and to the person He’s shaping you to be.
4. Be Present in the Small Things
Faith isn’t only about big, defining moments—it’s also found in the everyday...even the tiniest of things. When you slow down to notice the beauty around you, listen to a friend with
compassion, or pause to thank God for something simple, you’re practicing presence. These small moments of awareness help you stay rooted in gratitude and peace.
5. Keep Checking In
Refocusing isn’t a one-time thing; it’s something we return to again and again. Life changes,
seasons shift, and so do we. Keep asking God to guide your steps and remind you of what’s most important. “Be still, and know that I am God.” – Psalm 46:10
Taking time to pause, pray, and listen helps you stay centered in faith—even when life feels
uncertain.
A Final Thought
You deserve a life that feels meaningful and anchored in peace. When you take time to refocus, you remind yourself that your purpose isn’t about doing more—it’s about being aligned with who God created you to be. If you’re feeling lost, overwhelmed, or unsure where to start, therapy can help you find clarity, strength, and balance—integrating your mental health and faith journey along the way. You don’t have to figure it out alone.

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